Yesterday's Doctor's Visit

Yesterday was my pain management doctor's appointment and since Ron (my husband) was home he went with me. When the doctor finally came into the room it started out as usual, him not really looking at me but focusing on signing the prescriptions the nurse had filled out. Though he was a bit surprised when he entered the room to see my actually laying on my side on the examining table.I usually do not do that, instead I tough it out sitting in the chairs and do my best to hide my pain level. I choose to hide showing it physically because  I am afraid of being accused of lying or acting it up to make it appear worse than it is. Both are things I have been accused of by doctors in my past and 2 different nurses in my current doctor's office. I was hurting a great deal, finally gave in and laid down to get the weight/pressure off my left hip. I couldn't stay laying down for long cuz the right side started to hurt even more, so I had to sit up for a bit and when that started to hurt too much (after a minute or two) I would walk around the room; rinse and repeat. This prompted some questions, which I answered honestly, but he didn't comment on my replies.

I asked about the results of the cat scan that was done in January and was told there was nothing he did not expect regarding my sacrum and SI joints. He then said there was nothing exciting about my lower back either. Since I didn't get to read the report I don't know if that means everything is pretty much the same since the last cat scan (which showed the herniation at L5-S1 and bone fragments within the broken left SI joint) or  if it means that what new stuff did show up is what the doctor had been expecting to see. I like it much better when the doctor actually goes over the written results with me so I can ask questions.

Then the mobility evaluation was brought up. The doctor started to say that he didn't want me to have a power chair and that's when Ron started speaking up. The doctor had been getting ready to leave the room when Ron spoke up, instead he sat back down, crossed his legs and actually *looked* at Ron. He told the doctor that I've been in bed for months, that my pain has been real high, that I fall frequently and that I can't walk from my bedroom to the kitchen without having to sit down in the kitchen doorway or possibly falling. I said that I had been telling the doctor all of this for months, all about the new symptoms and how I can't stand or walk for more than 3 to 5 minutes. I went through it again, describing exactly what happens when I stand for 5 minutes. At minute 2 or 3, I get the sharp stabbing pain at the top of both SI joints and my lower back starts to scream and the sciatica symptoms start. By minute 4 my legs are shaking, shooting pains are going through entire pelvis, down both legs, and up my back. If I continue to stand after that starts, at minute 5 my leg gives out (usually the left, but sometimes both) and I fall. I've tested this many times, timing it as well, and that is the progression. I told him that I have been telling him this for months, which I had. But since I haven't been able to read my medical record, I can't say for sure if he put it in there. I'm pretty sure Ron, the PA, did though because I heard him speak into his tape recorder after a visit with him. (This was a few months ago, before the office stopped using physician's assistants)

The doctor looked down at my chart and started flipping through the pages and he had a slightly sheepish look on his face. Ron then asked me to tell the doctor how many times I fall in a week, so I did (the answer is 2 to 3 on average). The doctor asked if the injection they did helped, and I told him no, which it didn't help and I wasn't expecting it to. They haven't helped ever since I did that fundraising stuff for Kyle's friend, and suffered that fall on Christmas Eve 2010, when I landed on the edge of the arm of that heavy solid wood chair that Ron's dad built. The corner hit the scar over my left SI joint and my right SI joint hit the edge of the desk as I went down.

The doctor checked my reflexes by tapping on my knees and my ankles. My left leg jumped just a little, which surprised me. But when he tapped my right knee, it became obvious that my left leg did not respond the way it should have. It moved just a little, whereas my right leg jerked very noticeably. The same reaction occurred with my ankles, though my left foot barely moved at all. My right foot strongly jerked in response. I could feel the difference too. He didn't say whether he noticed it or not, just but the little reflex thingy back on the counter (it wasn't a hammer, it was a circle on the end of a handle).

The doctor ordered that I undergo the mobility evaluation for the power chair. This is GOOD!

 He then decided it was time to get the prep work done for radio frequency in June or July (when my year is up). He says my record shows I had radio frequency this passed summer, but I don't remember having it. I remember getting injections, but not RF due to insurance issues. I had been told my insurance would only pay for 1 RF procedure per year, not the 4 that I need (2 in lower back, 2 in pelvis). The doctor explained that the insurance company will not pay for more than 1 RF procedure to the same area in one year, but they will pay for more than one procedure to different spots and as long as they don't repeat any of the spinal levels, I can get all 4 sections done. He then said he wanted to go ahead and set up the diagnostics and filled out the order sheet for those. So I am all set for the diagnostic part of radio frequency in April. This way we can just order the RF in June without having to do the diagnostics and making me wait any longer than I already have. This is GOOD!

I mentioned to the doctor that I had purchased some books that are designed to help people suffering with chronic pain to learn techniques to help them cope with it. Some of these things I already do, such as meditating, deep breathing, visualization, and pacing myself but I figured it can't hurt to read them and see if there was anything new I could try. I told him that the book had a paper that lets the patient keep a pain journal and I would start doing that. A pain journal is a daily record of my pain levels. I will fill it out 3 or 4 times a day, writing down pain level by number, what activities I did that increased the pain, and what treatment methods/coping mechanisms I used to help me deal with the pain. This will give him a record of how I experience my pain on a daily basis. He seemed very pleased by both of these things. These are GOOD!

Ron then mentioned this blog and the doctor wrote down the URL. I don't know if he'll actually read it or not. If he does, I hope he isn't expecting daily postings with multiple reports of pain numbers throughout the day etc., like a pain journal. This blog is more for me to get out my thoughts, feelings, and experiences as it pertains to my constant pain (I still think that is a better descriptor than chronic pain). Even though it doesn't give the same day by day accounting as a pain journal does, it can provide the doctor with a better idea of how my pain has been affecting me and how I've been stuck in bed for months and how I am coping with it. So this is GOOD also!


I was saddened by the fact that everything that was said yesterday has been said by me alone for the past 9 months, yet it wasn't taken seriously until Ron was there and said the same things.

I understand that doctors, specially pain management doctors, have to be very very careful now thanks to the DEA's war on doctors and chronic pain patients. I understand that they have to be watchful and careful so they don't give a prescription to someone who turns out to be an addict. I understand that they are working under the threat of not only going to jail and losing their license to practice medicine, but also under the additional threat of losing everything they own. I understand where the doctor is coming from, I really do. But I can't help but feeling upset that (it seems) I was not believed until my husband talked to the doctor.

I think it is very wrong that doctors now have to assume their patients are exhibiting drug seeking behavior when all they are doing is what they should be doing, describing their symptoms to their physician, especially if those symptoms have changed. I think it is wrong that a patient has to bring in a witness to be believed. I am sure that this must frustrate the doctors as well because it interferes with their ability to develop a respectful and trusting relationship with their patients. All these new regulations and rules interfere with the doctor's ability to help people, which is usually why a person becomes a doctor in the first place.

Don't get me wrong, I like my doctor a great deal. He is understanding and genuinely wants to help me control my pain. If I didn't like my doctor I wouldn't have remained a patient of his office for the past 9 years. It is just frustrating to see how pain management has changed over those 9 years, to what it has become, as a result of the war on doctors. I can only imagine how much this must upset my doctors as well as it upsets me.